I just got through eplaining to my husband that what he did to me was rape. I told him that he was a rapist and that if he ever did that to me again, I would have him arrested and I would file charges. What started it was he thought it was funny that he has a large appetite for sex. Hmmmm....I gave him a major ear full about how he made it so I pretty much lost everything including my mind. I did him a favor by not having him arrested before, but by doing that, I am a mess and will have to go through years of healing and starting over. Why is it that a man doesn't think he can rape his wife? and why did I give him a break?